Linear Time

New Years symbolizes more than just a linear measurement of time past

and making plans for future actions. It is a reflection of habits accumulated

over time, of automatic responses, addictions, and shared opinions. This is

a good description of linear time perspective.

We sit down and analyze what went right or wrong, what we can do to improve

the shortcomings, and how the future will be different if we change the circumstances

that failed us in the past. Have you noticed that most of the time , nothing changes significantly

in the next year? The gyms and martial arts studios fill up in January and February with

students trying to fulfill their New Years resolutions , only to quit shortly after starting.

The fantasy was there but not the conviction to make real changes. Linear time likes to

repeat itself. We like automatic habits that make life easier. Going towards ease and pleasure

and avoiding pain or discomfort. The present pleasure for future pain syndrome that is

rampant in human behavior.

The solution lies in the problem, as is often the case. Making goals and plans, seeking to

improve on past mistakes, and seeking expansion are very positive actions. The missing link is

feelings; Feeling gratitude for what we already have. Feeling safe and secure. Feeling love and connections. Feeling optimistic. Feeling balanced.

As teachers and coaches, we need to ask the hard questions and genuinely listen to the

feelings and thoughts that are holding people from their highest potential. As I said in the title of

my Black Belt thesis in 1980, "There is more to life than a good front kick!" Though, that's a good start.

Happy all years. Keep the Faith!